For many of you who know me, I have always tried to be the life of the party. The one quoting movie scenes for levity, or the one making jokes or sarcastic comments to move a conversation, but honestly, it's been tough sledding. I have deep anxiety issues, especially when it comes to getting out in public. Whether it's with going to the gas station, shopping for groceries, or going to a concert, it's been  tough to get out knowing that I'm going to be objectified in some sense due to my dwarfism. My wife, my daughter, and my son have seen our fair shares of stares, comments, being photographed without our consent, and also being asked if someone can take our photo for their own collection or fetish that they might have. This has caused issues for our children as they have felt this wrath duing their time in school.  Our children have been photographed, bullied, or tagged online without their consent and as a parent you can imagine how this feels, as it's not you being the target, but your children.  
First and foremost, I'm not asking for sorrows, inspiration, or anything related, but just an ear, and hopefully something to think about. Words that are said can never be recalled by a simple command on your phone. Words that are posted can never be recalled by a simple delete button, because the internet is forever. Before committing an action, like deciding to take a photo of an individual, think about how this is not only going to affect that person's life, but your life as well.
Most importantly, and this has become my three favorite words lately, "Read the Room!" Stop thinking you're Rodney Dangerfield and making a joke about someone in marginalized community, because you happen to know someone in that community. Read the Room! When having a discussion at work, don't go down a path that you know might seem uncomfortable with other co-workers, just because you think this can be a conversation starter. Read the Room! And lastly, if you want to have a conversation to negate a marginalized community, I'm not only going to say Read the Room, but stop being an asshole!
I've been wanting to get this off my chest, and share in some respects, as I am growing tired of the same old nonsense. Not only dealing with my community, but other communities as well.